Survival

Do nothing to instigate a conflict with a Bolton. Appeasement and distractions are critical to survival.
Anticipate

Assume you are in the wrong, no matter what. If you try to do something nice, assume it will backfire.
Reek

Remember Reek. He made it out. You can too. Wait for your moment, it will come, or you will die. Either way, you got out.
Good Luck
All of this is merely a reference guide.
Ultimately you are on your own with your particular Bolton.
© Home Box Office, Inc. All Rights Reserved.